Well said, St. Paul. Agape...

An interesting book on the entire subject is by a non-Christian author (if I am remembering correctly): The Art Of Loving by Eric Fromme (sp?). Then there is some interesting reading in The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis.

Anyway, as far as romance is concerned...it evolves and adapts like people do, over time, IMO. Takes more than a feeling (no I am not quoting the rock group Boston) over the long haul, requiring commitment beyond chemical reactions. Again..IMO...